Well where do I start?
I had been out of a two year relationship for a short time. My brother called and told me that he needed me to go out with his girlfriend's brother as a favour. I really did not want to get involved with anyone so soon. However, he assured me that he had met the guy and he was different from most of the guys I had dated over the years. So I gave in and decided to do it for him. He said he would get back to me with a time, and admonished me to be nice so that his girlfriend would get good feedback. I told him that I would be a perfect lady and dote on his every word all evening like a good little girl. Later that night he emailed me this guys photo,”WOW” he was gorgeous! So what was wrong with him?
I chatted with him on the phone and he told me he would met me at the Swiss Chalet that was about two blocks from me. I though it was pretty decent of him not to have me go out of my way. So far so good. He waved me over to the table that he had already acquired as I walked in. I knew it was him from the photo I had seen but he looked even better in person. As I walked up to the table, we mutually introduced ourselves, and then sat down and talked a bit while studying the menus that were already on the table.
When the waiter came over to take our order, we both settled on roast chicken. We had wine with dinner and lingered over it afterwards. We talked for hours. He was funny and it was a pleasant evening. I don't think I've ever had so much fun on a first date in all my life. He was so easy to talk to, likely because we had so many interests in common. I just could not believe that it was happening to me. I was already starting to fall for him. When our sojourn came to an end, he offered to drive me home. On the way he asked if he could take me out again the next night. Needless to say, I accepted. If he had not asked me I was going to ask him, regardless of proper protocol!
We had been seeing a lot of each other for a few weeks when he asked me to go away with him to his cottage for the weekend I agreed right away. I planned to make it a weekend that neither of us would ever forget. It would be perfect. The day started early as he picked me up at 6:00 a.m. We stopped at a neighborhood McDonalds for an couple of egg McMuffins and coffee. Then we proceeded to on our way. I could not get over the vistas as we traveled. A rolling landscape changed to mountains with green coniferous trees and deep blue lakes. After three hours, the trip ended at a picturesque cozy cabin on the shore of a small lake. It had a large fireplace that heated the whole cabin, as well as the one bedroom.
The night was heavenly. We made love for hours. His stamina was one of the best things about him, and he knew exactly what buttons to push to keep me at a high pitch. I have never had so many orgasms. I was exhausted when I finally fell asleep, and the morning came way to soon.
And then disaster struck! I knew there had to be something about this guy. He was just too perfect. As I came fully awake, I noticed he was not beside me. As I turned around there he was. He was standing there wearing my discarded unmentionables. And they were way too tight on him. I was grossed out! As I stared, he informed me that he liked to cross dress once in a while, and asked me if it turned me on. I informed him that it didn't and he had better give my stuff back.
After chasing him around the cabin for twenty minutes trying to get my panties back, I decided that was it. This guy was just too weird for me! I packed my belongings and insisted he take me home immediately. Needless to say, it was a very quiet, very long three hour drive back.When I got in the door, the first thing I did was to through out the bra and panties that he had sullied and then I took a long hot shower in an effort to purge my soul of him.
Why does this stuff always happen to me? Just when I thought everything was going great, I get my emotions stomped on!
After moping around for a few months, I finally kicked myself in the butt and joined an online dating site. I connected with a few men, and finally found someone that I felt an affinity for. I am seeing a wonderful guy who doesn’t wear ladies underwear. He is not an adonis, but he is a likable funny guy and I love him.
If your interested in finding a great guy like I did just follow the link below
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If you believe a lot of right wing preachers, AIDS is God's punishment for the promiscuous sexual practices of modern society.
If you cotton to such arguments, then you have to also acknowledge that one group of society has remained almost unscathed by the curse that is AIDS. That group are committed lesbians. Statistically, there is almost a zero rate of AIDS transfer among lesbians. If they have it, it was likely caused from a non-sexual infection mechanism. In any event, statistically, lesbians must be looked on very favorably by God!
Needless to say, Lesbian Women and Lesbian Couples have a great deal going for them.
For example:
- They are both likely to be neat freaks, therefore their living quarters are always tidy
- They can each focus on their careers without the demands of caring for sick children
- They never have to fight with anyone so they can watch a chick flick
- Nobody flips channels constantly
- The toilet is always left in the correct position – DOWN!
- No messy splatter around the toilet
- They can always sexually satisfy each other
- They can always bring their partner to multiple orgasms
Kind of a warped viewpoint, but obviously valid!
If you are a lesbian seeking a woman, then consider the following link:
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I messaged this girl that I met on Plenty Of Fish and really didn't give it much though when I received no reply.That’s the way it goes sometimes. But after a couple of weeks went by and I had totally forgotten about her, I saw that she had finally replied and left her phone number. It struck me as strange that someone who didn't know me that well and had never spoke to me in person would all of a sudden, just out of the blue, leave me her phone number. That should have made the bells go off, but out of curiosity I decided to text her.
This started an avalanche of text messages back and forth for the next few days. We finally decided it was time to meet. She drove a long way to see me. Almost 60 miles. It was kind of an ego boost for me that a woman would do that just to see me.She was pretty hot in person, better than her photos on the site. She was wearing a nice perfume that was not overpowering. In all, the physical package was nice. On top of that we seemed to hit it off really well. Our coffee get together lasted quite a while, so we whiled away a couple of hours in the park and I took her to supper as well. I edged the conversation around to see if she would be interested in spending the night. Much to my surprise, she accepted but said it would have to be at her house because she had to return the car soon. On the way back, we got into a bit of mutual fondling, but of course that could only be a prelude because she was driving. We got back to her place and started listening to some music while snuggling on the couch.
All of a sudden she she got a few text messages which she answered. On top of this, her phone started to ring non-stop, and she seemed compelled to answer it rather than just turn it off for a while. I started to get very annoyed that she was spending all that time with the phone instead of me. On top of that, what little time we had between interruptions was taken up by a monologue on her part about her ex boyfriend and all of her trials and tribulations with him. As if I cared! So I sat there absentmindedly making sympathy noises while I got more and more steamed. I guess I must have hit the right tone with her, because we ended up in the sack after all, so that was worth the effort. We were hardly done before she jumped out of bed and scurried down the hall to her friend's room. She never returned. I waited up for a bit to see if she would come back, but I gave up about a half hour later and decided to just sack out.
I woke up alone and wondering what I was going to do. I decided to get the hell out of dodge as fast as I could. I opened the bedroom door and saw her roommate looking at me. She had this strange look on her face as if she was shocked that I was still there. Something about the roommate just seemed off. It was one of those instant insights that you get about people sometimes. I cannot put a finger on it. I could only describe it as “off”. Just to be perverse, I decided to have a shower before I left. The water in this backward hell hole probably was not fit to let an animal drink let alone a human because it smelled like boiled eggs. By this time I was really pissed off.
After dressing, I decided to go back to the bedroom and wait for my date to show up. I wanted to find out what was going on. Most importantly, I needed to find out when I could escape from this crazy place. When she came it she told me she was in a spot because she had borrowed the car from her friend's mother without permission. Her friend's mother had read her the riot act and kicked her out. She had an hour to pack up and leave permanently.
Yesterday she was straight, other than the wine we drank with dinner, but today she was on something. So was her roommate. A weird looking guy came over to take us to her (my date's) mother's house. The house was back in the bush a ways, and when we arrived, there had to be about fifteen strange dudes there who looked like dealers and the house smelled funny. It was probably from the crack they were likely making. They were just hanging around in a stupor listening to loud blaring music. It was wild. If it was in black and white it would have been like a nightmare scene from some B grade horror movie. I started to get a little worried; almost fearful.
A couple of them actually got into an animated discussion as to which train I had to take to get home. We left after about 20 more minutes, during which time my date and her mother had disappeared and I was left standing there with my thumb up my proverbial nether region. I guess the plan was to drop off my date and her mother someplace and then have me ferried to the train station, because that is what ended up happening.
I finally realized what it was about this guy that rubbed me the wrong way. He had his teeth filed of all things! All of his front teeth were pointed. He looked like Count Dracula and he keep smiling at me showing his fangs. His constant grinning was getting to me. The longer I was with him the more I was certain that I would crap my pants. I had to clinch my cheeks together as tight as I could and hoped I would get home in one piece. I hoped he had not decided to drive me all the way home, but suddenly we arrived at the train station. I wasted no time getting out of that car.
As it turned out, with all the delays at the house, we missed the train I was supposed to catch. I had to wait three more hours for the next one. On top of that, I did not have enough money to get all the way back. So I just sat back and stewed. I had to get off about an hour away from my destination and hitchhike the rest of the way. It had turned into a damp cold, drizzly day, and by the time I got home I was pretty demoralized. The first thing I did was to take a hot shower to wash the stink off and warm up.
Plenty Of Fish! Plenty of freaks is more like it as far as I am concerned. From now on I am going to pay for any dating service that I join. The money is a good filter for riffraff. I have learned that some times free is not always the best way to go. And some sites are not always safe because any moron, freak and weirdo can also join, just because it is free.
Not all free sites are bad. In fact, POF may actually be okay for most people. I may have had a worse experience than most. But in the final analysis, they have a harder time filtering out idiots because they tend to get more of them.
Once I had made the decision to leave POF, I had another issue to solve. How would I find a replacement site that was actually better. After a lot of searching, I finally found a site that rated a bunch of dating sites. It has been successful for me, so I am passing that on to you. There are risks in joining any dating site, but especially so for free sites. So be safe. The link below is the one I have used to advantage. I hope it works for you too.
Top Dating Sites
Being single again after a lifetime of marriage and being over fifty can be pretty daunting. About half of women over the age of 60 live alone compared to only one out of six men. Dating has certainly changed a lot in the past 30 years or so. It is not all that unusual to see granny's buying condoms with their support hose. Older men are also a bit confused by modern dating etiquette, and are somewhat uncertain as to whether to be chivalrous, treat their female date with the same consideration as a male friend, or go dutch treat.
Several old television relic’s have proven more than once that we all have a come back or two in us, but with every failed date that idea, like our perfect eye site, is slowly fading away. Finding yourself splitting in your 50's can be a very shattering experience. Becoming a widow or widower is even more so. People tend to be a bit more set in their ways and comfortable with their life styles when they are in their 50's and beyond. This makes it much more difficult to find someone compatible than when you are in your more flexible 20's. If you are looking to find someone who just meshes with you and your lifestyle, the odds are severely against you. If you intend to find a new life partner, then you must be prepared to do a few changes. These do not have to be radical, but you do need to do some things differently. Personally, I always hated golf, but I took it up so that I would have a better chance of finding someone – and hey, I grew to like it, so it was not a waste.
I have had dates that demanded I pay for half the meal, the gas they used to come to my home and pick me up, and to add insult to injury demanded that for our next date I pick them up, how pig headed is that. I guess I am not that liberated yet. You will often have to sit through a boring evening of stories about their current job or past profession, their deceased wife, ex girl friends, how good they are in bed, and how their piles are inflamed and they cannot sit for another minute. Of course several of them will also bring up the topic of Cialis or Viagra, just trying to lay a foundation for later on.
And its not much easier for the men. I have heard many disaster stories from friends, who are at the point of no return when it comes to dating. All of these are symptoms of a fundamental incompatibility with each other from the get-go.
Why is it so hard for seniors to find someone compatible? Life is supposed to get easier as you get older. For some reason this does not fully apply to seniors dating. What is the cause of this phenomenon? It is not as if we are amateurs in the dating game! We understand what it is that we are looking for and are not wishy-washy about it. So why is it so tough? Is it because we are too inflexible? I don't think so! Older people want the same things that younger men and women are are searching for in a relationship. They all want:
1) Someone To Listen
2) Someone To Care
3)Someone Interesting
4)Someone Compassionate
5)Someone Loving
6)Someone Understanding
7)Someone Compatible
8)Someone With Similar Interests
9)Someone With similar Values
10)Someone To Share Our Lives With
11)Someone Who Respects Me
12)Someone I Can Respect
Why would that, in any way, be too much to ask for?
After discussing my personal life with some of my best friends. My friends suggested that I try one of the hundreds of senior dating sites available online. I was reluctant to try using a dating site, but after some encouraging input from my pals, and after being a lonely heart for way too long, I decided to give it a go. I turned on my computer and searched for senior dating sites. My friends were right! There are dozens if not hundreds of them, my head was spinning.
It was a little confusing for me at first. This was just so much tougher than picking just the right shade of lipstick at the pharmacy. I explained this to one one my friends and she suggested a site for me. This site is a dating site rating service. They have tested thousands of dating sites, and have a list of the sites that they recommend. All of them are categorized to make it easier to select. My friend said that she had signed up to a couple of the recommended sites just to make sure that she would find someone fast.
She said that is how she met her boyfriend. Here I was thinking that she met this terrific guy at work, what a shock. So I gave them a try, it was simple I just entered my profile information, and the site did most of the rest of the work for me. It didn't take long before they had several men that were exactly what I have been looking for. I'm in dating heaven! For the first time in years I am actually going out with wonderful men and it's so exciting, life really does get better with age.
If you are a mature man or women and you are seeking a new love in your life with, then take the first step. Check out the link below and join one or two of the sites. You will never regret it.
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The Internet is now the engine that drives freedom of expression to the entire world. This has a couple of facets that result. The first is that the Internet is a vehicle for driving hate crimes and fanaticism. The better side of the Internet is its ability to drive the causes of freedom of religion, the embracing of racial equality, and lauding the benefits of religious diversity.
One place where this freedom of choice and expression is most evident is in the online dating community of sites. Every possible niche of dating is covered; which includes males, females, transgenders, transsexuals, every possible religion or agnostic or atheistic belief, and every race of humanity. The Internet Dating Sites fully embrace these freedoms which have been championed by the internet since its inception.
Online dating is not just for any one race, black women and black men will often employ the Internet to establish connections with potential mates. The best thing about the Internet is that it is totally cool with the types of relationships that were much less tolerated for so many years. The internet is the primary promoter of a worldwide melting pot comprising races, religions, ethnicities, ages, sex, sexuality and/or age groups.
Though you might think it hard to find black singles online, you can find them if you know where to look. Here are a few thoughts on how to find single black men and black women online.
With the quantity and variety of online social networking sites, it seems everyone is connected to everyone. There’s a good chance that some of your friends have a friend that knows someone who’s black and single. It is totally possible to leverage sites like facebook to find your black soulmate. Many social sites allow you to publish a personal profile with the objective of finding someone of similar interests. Black people and their admirers can set up profiles for others to see. Broad spectrum social networking sites will often have a personals area that match single black adults with others from around the world. Sites like craigs list or kijiiji that have personals areas as part of their larger offerings are examples of this class of site.
Probably the easiest way to meet other black singles would be to sign up to a black online dating service. There are an abundance of them on the web. It might be prudent for you to take your time when searching for the right black dating site that offers the services that you are searching for.
The Internet is the right place to find the perfect match for you, whether it is for fun or romance or finding someone to have a serious relationship with it will likely be the ideal matchmaking choice for you. People from all walks of life use the internet daily. At any given point in time there are many of black singles online seeking for other black singles to chat with. Use your favorite search engine to look for black dating sites, you will soon find that many sites allow you easily post a profile, look at other peoples profiles, see their photos and videos, chat and email them.
Keep in mind that black singles do not necessarily have to go to an all black online dating site, there are quite a lot online dating sites that offer interracial dating, so it is very possible to use these to find other black single, Caucasian single, or Asian single almost right away. In conjunction with that there are people everywhere in the world looking to meet someone just like you, so you could be connected with someone from the other side of the globe if you are ready to make the arrangements to meet them in person.
No one should be alone, there are so many helpful ways of getting to know people these days there is no reason to be alone. There is nothing embarrassing about finding someone online, at least you will have an idea what the person is like before you get involved, and if you are not satisfied with what you see then you can block this person so you don't hear from them or talk to them again. The anonymity of online dating sites is their true strength. It offers a level of security that meeting in bars can never begin to approach. How could anybody give you grief if they do not even know who you really are or where you actually live.
Solets golonely singles out there, join an online dating site of your choice, you will only gain from the experience. Wouldn’t it be nice to have a partner in your life to spend time with and have a richer social life. To save you time, the following link is provided to allow you to find many pre-vetted dating sites.
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During the summer months many families and couples take their vacations in Canada because of its huge and vast beauty. However, all that beauty will invariably lead to the desire to have sex. I’ve compiled a listing of every province and territory, and an interesting place to stop for some adult fun in each. Please consult your family physician and your lawyer before attempting any of these suggestions.
Newfoundland
On the coast of Newfoundland in the Castle Hill National Historic Site, there is an old seventeenth century fort called “Placentia”. It was a fort that the French had built to fight the British, and protect their fishing rights in the Atlantic. Today, it is a well-maintained fort with lots of places to sneak away from the guided tours for a little quickie. Just don’t let them catch you, or you might be thrown into the fort’s stockade.
PEI
Prince Edward Island, similar to Idaho, is known for its spuds. But there the similarity ends. This is an island with only about 200,000 people living on it. Mostly farmers with some fishing and commerce. One of the more interesting attractions for tourists is the confederation bridge to get to the island from New Brunswick. It is one of the longest bridges in the world. But for nature loving people, The Confederation Trail is a highlight that winds through various maritime ecologies. It is a nature lovers delight, and also has many private places for you to enjoy each other intimately.
Nova Scotia
Peggy's Cove has one of the more famous lighthouses in the world. Although this quaint and cozy area has become a bit of a tourist trap, you just must see this attraction. Of course, there are many bed and breakfast places nearby to cozy up with your partner as well.
New Brunswick
One really cool site to visit is the magnetic hill near Moncton New Brunswick. You and stop your car at the bottom of the hill, put it in neutral, and it will actually roll uphill. Once it gets to the top of the hill, you could stop and see if the magnetic attraction in this area has had any beneficial effects on your animal magnetism. Just test it out with your partner.
Quebec
Quebec City is one of the oldest inhabited places in North America. It was originally colonized by the French as a fur trading post and fort before the landing of the pilgrims. The current citadel and other fortifications around the city show the military history of the site very clearly. The French culture of Quebec is most evident here. This is nothing at all like Louisiana. After you have toured a fort you can eat at one of the many fine restaurants in the city. When finished with food, you can retire to your room and see if anything else stimulates your various appetites.
Ontario
A little-known and cool spot in the heart of Ontario is the Cheltenham Badlands Trail. In the middle of boring farmland is a crazy Martian landscape like nothing you’ve ever seen. The rock is folded over on itself and a deep red color. Perfect for finding a private nook with someone special and pretending like you’re doing it on Mars. Please hike your sex protection devices out with you!
Alberta
The Cheltenham Badlands of Ontario are nothing at all when compared to the scope of what Alberta has to offer. If you are into roughing it, you’ll love the Alberta Badlands even more! There’s Brook, Alberta, where you can go digging for bones in Dinosaur Provincial Park. For those of you who are into greener pleasures, it is hard to top Banff National Park. Located just outside of Calgary, the park starts in the foothills of the Rockies and winds through a long valley bordered by touring mountains, like Mount Eisenhower. Truly stunning in grandeur everywhere you look. Elk and Black bear wander along the side of the highway the cuts through the middle of the park. You can stay at Lake Louise and enjoy a glacier hike with world class dining. Paddle a canoe on the lake, and when you are finished paddling the canoe, you can get into some more kinky paddling with each other.
Manitoba
Not many people know that the Harlequin Romance novel empire got its start in Winnipeg, Manitoba. You can write your own story when you visit this gorgeous province in the prairies. Visit Churchill, Manitoba with your special lover, and while you view polar bears in their natural habitat, you can warm each other up in a snow-fort you can build yourself. Just don’t melt the roof with your heat of passion!
Saskatchewan
Saskatchewan is a typical, dry, prairie jurisdiction. This land is flat, flat, flat. Surprisingly, there is still a lot of water visible in the province. Just outside of the capital city of Regina is the small town of Craven. Set on the end of the beautiful Qu'appelle Valley, the setting is very picturesque, even if the town is not. Every year though, this tiny hamlet hosts one of the largest country music festivals in the world. Fifty Thousand people routinely make this small dot on the map their home for a weekend. Free love abounds. It is a country version of Woodstock every year. This is a great place to make out to the rhythms of your favorite country songs.
British Columbia
You have to assume that the 800 year old fir trees in Cathedral Grove on Vancouver Island have seen their fare share of everything. But when was the last time they saw a couple getting busy against their huge 250 foot trunks? Find a quiet and private tree and get wood against some wood. In 800 more years, they’ll have some interesting tales to tell the aliens that can talk to plants.
Yukon
If you’re sex partner enjoys having sex under a black light, or while their psychedelic screensaver flashes, then you’ll love the Yukon. Go north and watch nature’s light show – the aurora borealis – flash and transform over you while you have sex in the snow. Keep an eye open for bears, and bring lots of hot chocolate to keep warm when you’re finished!
NWT
If you are into architecture, then the igloo shaped church in Canada's most northerly town of Inuvik might interest you. Definitely above the arctic circle, the sun never sets at all for several days in mid June. Well worth a trip to see. Of course that means that you can make love under the sun for 24 hours straight. An interesting pastime if you have the stamina.
Nunavut
Nunavut has some interesting features. The most northerly permanent settlement in the world is Alert. It is the home of the worlds magnetic north pole.
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I met a guy at the bus stop. He took the same bus as I did to go to work each day and we would often sit together and chat. He was always a perfect gentleman. Each of us worked downtown and did the commute daily. It was not so strange that we worked in the same block so it was just a matter of time before we met in the food court. It was not too long before that day came around. He found me one day while I was eating lunch and asked if he could sit with me. So we sat together and had a pleasant lunch talking about innocuous things. I thought to my self what a great guy and not bad looking either. But as often is the case, looks can be deceiving.He had just finalized his divorce and said that he was out of practice with dating. He had been with his wife a number of years and it just seemed so unnatural to be going out with someone else that he had been avoiding it. Since I was also divorced, it was easy to commiserate with him on this point. He seemed very surprised to find out that I to was divorced, he said that my ex must have been a moron to let me go. I said that it was nice of him to say that. “Well its true!” he said. “You're a great women and if I thought you would say yes I would ask you out”. So we ended up agreeing to go on a date together.We had many mutual interests. This really helped to launch our relationship from passing fancy to very interested in a hurry.We took it slow which was fine by me because neither one of us wanted to rush into anything too soon. As we grew closer, it just seemed inevitable that the day would come when we wanted to take things to the next level. I guess it was only right for both of us to be a little nervous. In any event, we decided to make the trek up to his cottage the following weekend for a romantic getaway.Well the day came and he drove down to my house to pick me up for our romantic weekend get away. As a matter of fact that’s exactly what I should have told him, “GET AWAY”, but like a love starved teenager I had fallen for a handsome face and a sad story. His idea of a cottage certainly did not match mine. This place needed a ton of work. It was not even safe to walk into! We ate a small supper and then had to sleep in a small tent that he had set up earlier. As I lay down, I discovered a large snake in my sleeping bag. I almost peed myself! I ran into the night screaming in fright. He followed me asking what he could do to make it up to me. I said that he should get a bigger tent, and that there was only one type of snake that I was not afraid of!The next day, I quietly packed up and told him I do not think that we had a future together. I felt like a heel as he quietly drove me home, but I needed to look out for myself. I was concerned that his exaggeration of his cottage was just the tip of the iceberg. How could I trust him? That night I cried my heart out as I told my best friend how disappointed I was. She consoled me, and told me some of her own dating nightmare stories. She was so funny that she totally turned my mood around. In the end, she told me about his site she had found that had lists of over a hundred high quality dating sites. I decided that I would give it a try.I met a few very nice men over the next few months but there was no spark until he came along. I was worried because he seemed to perfect. He had all the qualities that I wanted for sure, and quite a few more that I considered just 'nice to haves'. We had interacted online for some time before he finally gave me his phone number. By this time I was starting to dispare that he did not like me or something. Talking to him seemed like deja vu! There was something familiar about his voice. I was sure that I had heard it before, but I could not place where. We had a great time talking over the next few weeks. He liked everything that I liked it seemed. And he was not faking it, because he could actually talk in depth about the things I was interested in. We did not always agree, but we sure had fun! And it was just so stimulating! I was so joyous I had someone who cared about me enough to give me that URL. It was the nicest thing that anyone had ever done for me, even though it did not seem like such a big deal at the time. |I was floating on air. I felt like a teenager again.|I was bouncing around like a teenager. Bubbling with enthusiasm and overjoyed. All my friends noticed and remarked on it!|During that time, I was so happy that all my friends kept commenting on it. What a joy he brought to my life!About the only thing that was strange about our online relationship was that I had never seen his picture. He said that he was not photogenic and felt it would be best if I judged his looks by seeing him in person.The day finally came for me to meet my prince charming but something was not quite right when we spoke on the phone the night before. He said he was pretty sure that I would take a powder as soon as I saw him. I was starting to be concerned that the guy looked like Shrek or something! Although I vowed not to run away on him more than once, he still seemed to be concerned. He suggested that instead of picking me up it would be better for me to meet him at his summer home. So he gave me the directions to his place. On the way, I experienced Deja Vu a few times. It was almost as if I knew what was around some of the bends before I got there. Then it hit me, the out house guy has a cottage up this way. “NO”( please God say it isn't so). But it was. He flagged me down a few hundred feet from where I was supposed to meet him. It was him alright! No wonder he had been concerned!As I got out of the car, I walked to the trunk opened it and proceeded to look for my tire iron so I could clobber him. He caught my hands before I could do anything, told me to calm down and wait to see the rest of his surprise before I reacted. He led me down the road to where we had spent the night in a tent with the snake! I kept expecting to see snakes everywhere. But as we got to the site, I was flabbergasted! I was looking at the cutest summer cottage that I had ever seen.. He said he had never stopped loving me, but felt that he had to do something special to win me back. He told me that he realized that he had handled the situation before pretty ham handedly. He said he had just purchased the lot, and had wanted me to see it before he started to do anything so that we could plan our cottage together. He wanted to surprise me, but realized that he should have told me what he was up to. After things when bad so fast, he did not see any reasonable way to salvage the mess. I felt like a complete ass for misjudging him so badly!That was four years ago, and we are still going strong. We married a year later and life could not be any better for either of us. Now technically, I did not meet this guy on that dating site really, but if I had not met him again anonymously, I would likely have never given him that second chance. Ouch! Thank God for that dating site! My best friend gave me that link to happiness, and I have been truly blessed since that happened. Everything good in my life dates back to that simple gesture on her part. She walks on water in my eyes. I am forever grateful to her! If you got all the way to the end of this crazy story, then there is a good chance that you are looking for something more in your love life just like I was. The link below was the secret to my happiness. I sure hope it will be the secret to yours as well!Find Your Match
